Family is supposed to be the strongest bond.

You know growing up you siblings are your best friend. My little sister really "was" my best friend up until three years ago. As adults even we spent weekends together and talked on the phone everyday. I also have an older sister, and not for lack of trying I have never built a relation ship with her. I can not say as to why, I try all the time, invites to dinner, asking to get kids together to play, or just calling to talk. But it still just has never worked it seems all one ended. The three of us are all we have though, our mother the only tie between us is gone, she tragicly passed in June of 2000. People say in the wake of tragidy bonds are built, and that may have been true to my little sister and I, but not with our older sister.